map-change should only get emitted when user interacts, similar to change event from HTML

[AliyanH]

currently our map-change event gets emitted every time the attributeChangedCallback for the checked attribute is invoked, which can be through the API, keyboard navigation or click.

For the HTML change event, it is only emitted by user interactions, unlike our map-change event which can be emitted by even the API.

We need to refactor our event use to either use a new event or change our current implementation