fix: Table selection cache

[zombieJ]

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resolve #24336

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Language	Changelog
🇺🇸 English	Fix Table rowSelection.onChange return removed records by dataSource.
🇨🇳 Chinese	修复 Table 在 dataSource 移除条目时，rowSelection.onChange 任然会缓存的问题。

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Could you please add tests to make sure this change works as expected?

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https://preview-24338-ant-design.surge.sh

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https://preview-24338-ant-design.surge.sh/components/button

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Codecov Report

Merging #24338 into master will increase coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
components/table/hooks/useSelection.tsx	98.36% <100.00%> (+0.05%)	⬆️

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[damiangreen]

I believe this fix has broken functionality we rely on.

[zombieJ]

@damiangreen pls feel free to fire an issue if any bug you meet.

[damiangreen]

There is one already but it got closed too quickly.. can we re-open it
#24640