Can't connect remote database

[imlison]

os: macos monterey 12.7.4
xca version: 2.6.0

I installed via brew
brew install unixodbc libiodbc mariadb-connector-odbc

and put odbc.ini in three places:
~/.odbc.ini
/etc/odbc.ini
/usr/local/etc/odbc.ini

the file content

[Default]
Description = MariaDB Driver
Driver = /usr/local/lib/mariadb/libmaodbc.dylib
#Driver = /usr/local/opt/libiodbc/lib/libiodbc.dylib
Server = 127.0.0.1
Database = xca
User = xca
Password = MY_PASSWORD

when test with isql, it connect success
isql -v Default

but it didn't work for xca

Is it something wrong with my settings?

thanks