feat: macOS removal fallback when moveItemToTrash fails

[codebytere]

Description of Change

Refs #4974.

Some macOS volumes may not support a Trash folder or it may be disabled, so these methods will report failure by returning NO or nil and an NSError with NSFeatureUnsupportedError.

This enables consumers to handle this by optionally passing a boolean deleteOnFail value to indicate whether or not the item should be unilaterally deleted if the NSFileManager fails to execute trashItemAtURL.

cc @miniak @ckerr @MarshallOfSound

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Release Notes

Notes: Enable macOS users to fallback to item removal when when shell.moveItemToTrash fails.

[deepak1556]

LGTM with api change.

[release-clerk]

Release Notes Persisted

Enable macOS users to fallback to item removal when when shell.moveItemToTrash fails.