Remove vue-marcos and update vite @vitejs/plugin-vue and @vitejs/plugin-vue-jsx versions

[xxholly32]

Previously, 'vue-marcos' was used for the first time because some features of Vue, such as defineOptions, could not meet the requirements. But now, the features of Vue 3.4 have largely satisfied most scenarios in Element-Plus. So, is it possible now to separate 'vue-marcos' at a fundamental level?

Or upgrade vue-marcos and a few other build packages vite, @vitejs/plugin-vue and @vitejs/ plugin-Vue-jsx versions

After a careful examination, I noticed that many of the build packages in the project are outdated e.g. rollup, and the build process is overly complicated. I'm not sure if there is a plan for restructuring, but I feel that I could contribute to it.