Consider better timeout handling to optimize all parts of Hop

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Consider a more robust mental model for how long a timeout should be for various situations (RPC calls, web2 service calls, etc.). Could possibly dramatically increase TPS.

Possible Implementation

Strict timeout for tx lifecycle stuff that affects TPS and less-strict for non-tx lifecycle

Considerations

• Different RPC providers have different speeds and handling them all might be impossible.
• A long timeout (seconds) could block the bonder and we should not allow that.
• Linea’s (Infura) RPC took 7s and 9s for two respective txs during their quest…