switch to better-sqlite3

[eikaramba]

currently the default sqlite driver is @vscode/sqlite3, however that does not provide prebuilt binaries and will possible vanish see microsoft/vscode-node-sqlite3#16 (comment)

a better alterantive is to switch to better-sqlite3 as the default driver, which is already supported by knex.

alternatively if i am correct one could wait for the mapbox to fix the vulnerabilites, however that does not seem to happen soon TryGhost/node-sqlite3#1493

original pull request for using @vscode/sqlite3 #4866

[kibertoad]

We definitely should consider that for 2.0.0

[NilsBaumgartner1994]

push, we also face this problem

[carlosfaria94]

Ghost team have taken the development of node-sqlite3! All the problems are fixed in their recent version!

https://github.com/TryGhost/node-sqlite3