[XGrid] Column resizing not working on touch devices

[m4theushw]

• The issue is present in the latest release.
• I have searched the issues of this repository and believe that this is not a duplicate.

Current Behavior 😯

Trying to resize a column on a touch device doesn't work.

Expected Behavior 🤔

It should allow to resize.

Context 🔦

This is a regression from #1720. When the effect runs the ref below is undefined, then it doesn't add the listener.

https://github.com/mui-org/material-ui-x/blob/de37d4b92d0534bd541598d88ea0df25710de6ae/packages/grid/_modules_/grid/hooks/features/columnResize/useGridColumnResize.tsx#L313

Raised in #1989 (comment) and #1967 (comment).

[oliviertassinari]

It looks like now is a great time for adding a test #537 (comment) 😁. It was broken in #1720