stream: fix multiple Writable.destroy() calls

Calling Writable.destroy() multiple times in the same tick
could cause an assertion error.

Fixes: #38189

PR-URL: #38221
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Nitzan Uziely <linkgoron@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Backport-PR-URL: #38473

lib/internal/streams/writable.js

@@ -778,6 +778,7 @@ ObjectDefineProperties(Writable.prototype, {
 const destroy = destroyImpl.destroy;
 Writable.prototype.destroy = function(err, cb) {
   const state = this._writableState;
+
   if (!state.destroyed) {
     process.nextTick(errorBuffer, state, new ERR_STREAM_DESTROYED('write'));
   }

test/parallel/test-stream-writable-destroy.js

@@ -417,3 +417,14 @@ const assert = require('assert');
   }));
   write.write('asd');
 }
+
+{
+  // Destroy twice
+  const write = new Writable({
+    write(chunk, enc, cb) { cb(); }
+  });
+
+  write.end(common.mustCall());
+  write.destroy();
+  write.destroy();
+}