doc: sync deprecation numbers with v14.x

Syncs master and v14.x for DEP0143 - `Transform._transformState`.
Bumps `module.parent` from DEP0143 to DEP0144 on master. Adds
missing DEP number and  metadata for DEP0145: `socket.bufferSize`.

PR-URL: #34368
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>

doc/api/deprecations.md

@@ -2740,12 +2740,12 @@ const moduleParents = Object.values(require.cache)
   .filter((m) => m.children.includes(module));
 ```
 
-<a id="DEP0XXX"></a>
-### DEP0XXX: `socket.bufferSize`
+<a id="DEP0145"></a>
+### DEP0145: `socket.bufferSize`
 <!-- YAML
 changes:
   - version: REPLACEME
-    pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/REPLACEME
+    pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34088
     description: Documentation-only deprecation.
 -->