diff --git a/doc/api/quic.md b/doc/api/quic.md
index 3667a05b394956..6143d3995cfaa8 100644
--- a/doc/api/quic.md
+++ b/doc/api/quic.md
@@ -1319,10 +1319,7 @@ added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
 New instances of `QuicSocket` are created using the `net.createQuicSocket()`
-method.
-
-Once created, a `QuicSocket` can be configured to work as both a client and a
-server.
+method, and can be used as both a client and a server.
 
 #### Event: `'busy'`
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1330,24 +1327,24 @@ added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
 Emitted when the server busy state has been toggled using
-`quicSocket.setServerBusy()`. The callback is invoked with a single
-boolean argument indicating `true` if busy status is enabled,
-`false` otherwise. This event is strictly informational.
+`quicSocket.serverBusy = true | false`. The callback is invoked with no
+arguments. Use the `quicsocket.serverBusy` property to determine the
+current status. This event is strictly informational.
 
 ```js
 const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
 
 const socket = createQuicSocket();
 
-socket.on('busy', (busy) => {
-  if (busy)
+socket.on('busy', () => {
+  if (socket.serverBusy)
     console.log('Server is busy');
   else
     console.log('Server is not busy');
 });
 
-socket.setServerBusy(true);
-socket.setServerBusy(false);
+socket.serverBusy = true;
+socket.serverBusy = false;
 ```
 
 This `'busy'` event may be emitted multiple times.
@@ -1371,6 +1368,17 @@ Emitted before the `'close'` event if the `QuicSocket` was destroyed with an
 
 The `'error'` event will not be emitted multiple times.
 
+#### Event: `'listening'`
+<!-- YAML
+added: REPLACEME
+-->
+
+Emitted after `quicsocket.listen()` is called and the `QuicSocket` has started
+listening for incoming `QuicServerSession`s.  The callback is invoked with
+no arguments.
+
+The `'listening'` event will not be emitted multiple times.
+
 #### Event: `'ready'`
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
@@ -1385,10 +1393,60 @@ The `'ready'` event will not be emitted multiple times.
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-Emitted when a new `QuicServerSession` has been created.
+Emitted when a new `QuicServerSession` has been created. The callback is
+invoked with a single argument providing the newly created `QuicServerSession`
+object.
+
+```js
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = getOptionsSomehow();
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('session', (session) => {
+  // Attach session event listeners.
+});
+```
 
 The `'session'` event will be emitted multiple times.
 
+The `'session'` event handler *may* be an async function.
+
+If the `'session'` event handler throws an error, or if it returns a `Promise`
+that is rejected, the error will be handled by destroying the `QuicServerSession`
+automatically and emitting a `'sessionError'` event on the `QuicSocket`.
+
+#### Event: `'sessionError'`
+<!--YAML
+added: REPLACEME
+-->
+
+Emitted when an error occurs processing an event related to a specific
+`QuicSession` instance. The callback is invoked with two arguments:
+
+* `error` {Error} The error that was either thrown or rejected.
+* `session` {QuicSession} The `QuicSession` instance that was destroyed.
+
+The `QuicSession` instance will have been destroyed by the time the
+`'sessionError'` event is emitted.
+
+```js
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = getOptionsSomehow();
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('session', (session) => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+});
+
+server.on('sessionError', (error, session) => {
+  console.log('error:', error.message);
+});
+```
+
 #### quicsocket.addEndpoint(options)
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
@@ -1416,46 +1474,60 @@ added: REPLACEME
 
 * Type: {boolean}
 
-Will be `true` if the `QuicSocket` has been successfully bound to the local UDP
-port.
+Will be `true` if the `QuicSocket` has been successfully bound to a local UDP
+port. Initially the value is `false`.
+
+`QuicSocket` instances are not bound to a local UDP port until the first time
+eithe `quicsocket.listen()` or `quicsocket.connect()` is called. The `'ready'`
+event will be emitted once the `QuicSocket` has been bound and the value of
+`quicsocket.bound` will become `true`.
+
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.boundDuration
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The length of time this `QuicSocket` has been bound to a local port.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the length of time this `QuicSocket` has been bound
-to a local port.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.bytesReceived
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of bytes received by this `QuicSocket`.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of bytes received by this `QuicSocket`.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.bytesSent
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of bytes sent by this `QuicSocket`.
+The number of bytes sent by this `QuicSocket`.
+
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.clientSessions
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of client `QuicSession` instances that
-have been associated with this `QuicSocket`.
+The number of client `QuicSession` instances that have been associated
+with this `QuicSocket`.
+
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.close(\[callback\])
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1629,9 +1701,11 @@ Will be `true` if the `QuicSocket` has been destroyed.
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
 
-A `BigInt` representing the length of time this `QuicSocket` has been active,
+The length of time this `QuicSocket` has been active,
+
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.endpoints
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1767,10 +1841,11 @@ If a `callback` is given, it is registered as a handler for the
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
 
-A `BigInt` representing the length of time this `QuicSocket` has been listening
-for connections.
+The length of time this `QuicSocket` has been listening for connections.
+
+Read-only
 
 #### quicsocket.listening
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1786,29 +1861,33 @@ Set to `true` if the `QuicSocket` is listening for new connections.
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of packets received by this `QuicSocket` that have been ignored.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of packets received by this `QuicSocket` that
-have been ignored.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.packetsReceived
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of packets successfully received by this `QuicSocket`.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of packets successfully received by this
-`QuicSocket`.
+Read-only
 
 #### quicsocket.packetsSent
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of packets sent by this `QuicSocket`.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of packets sent by this `QuicSocket`.
+Read-only
 
 #### quicsocket.pending
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1824,25 +1903,40 @@ Set to `true` if the socket is not yet bound to the local UDP port.
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
+#### quicsocket.serverBusy
+<!-- YAML
+added: REPLACEME
+-->
+
+* Type: {boolean} When `true`, the `QuicSocket` will reject new connections.
+
+Setting `quicsocket.serverBusy` to `true` will tell the `QuicSocket`
+to reject all new incoming connection requests using the `SERVER_BUSY` QUIC
+error code. To begin receiving connections again, disable busy mode by setting
+`quicsocket.serverBusy = false`.
+
 #### quicsocket.serverBusyCount
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of `QuicSession` instances rejected due to server busy status.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of `QuicSession` instances rejected
-due to server busy status.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.serverSessions
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of server `QuicSession` instances that have been associated with
+this `QuicSocket`.
 
-A `BigInt` representing the number of server `QuicSession` instances that
-have been associated with this `QuicSocket`.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.setDiagnosticPacketLoss(options)
 <!-- YAML
@@ -1861,27 +1955,16 @@ by artificially dropping received or transmitted packets.
 
 This method is *not* to be used in production applications.
 
-#### quicsocket.setServerBusy(\[on\])
-<!-- YAML
-added: REPLACEME
--->
-
-* `on` {boolean} When `true`, the `QuicSocket` will reject new connections.
-  **Defaults**: `true`.
-
-Calling `setServerBusy()` or `setServerBusy(true)` will tell the `QuicSocket`
-to reject all new incoming connection requests using the `SERVER_BUSY` QUIC
-error code. To begin receiving connections again, disable busy mode by calling
-`setServerBusy(false)`.
-
 #### quicsocket.statelessResetCount
 <!-- YAML
 added: REPLACEME
 -->
 
-* Type: {bigint}
+* Type: {number}
+
+The number of stateless resets that have been sent.
 
-A `BigInt` that represents the number of stateless resets that have been sent.
+Read-only.
 
 #### quicsocket.toggleStatelessReset()
 <!-- YAML
diff --git a/lib/internal/quic/core.js b/lib/internal/quic/core.js
index f559e040febd92..9b3d0f85da4817 100644
--- a/lib/internal/quic/core.js
+++ b/lib/internal/quic/core.js
@@ -12,8 +12,10 @@ assertCrypto();
 const {
   Array,
   BigInt64Array,
+  Boolean,
   Error,
   Map,
+  Number,
   RegExp,
   Set,
   Symbol,
@@ -22,6 +24,7 @@ const {
 const { Buffer } = require('buffer');
 const { isArrayBufferView } = require('internal/util/types');
 const {
+  customInspect,
   getAllowUnauthorized,
   getSocketType,
   lookup4,
@@ -37,10 +40,10 @@ const {
   validateQuicEndpointOptions,
   validateCreateSecureContextOptions,
   validateQuicSocketConnectOptions,
+  QuicSocketSharedState,
   QuicSessionSharedState,
   QLogStream,
 } = require('internal/quic/util');
-const util = require('util');
 const assert = require('internal/assert');
 const EventEmitter = require('events');
 const fs = require('fs');
@@ -246,6 +249,8 @@ const kUsePreferredAddress = Symbol('kUsePreferredAddress');
 const kVersionNegotiation = Symbol('kVersionNegotiation');
 const kWriteGeneric = Symbol('kWriteGeneric');
 
+const kRejections = Symbol.for('nodejs.rejection');
+
 const kSocketUnbound = 0;
 const kSocketPending = 1;
 const kSocketBound = 2;
@@ -266,8 +271,8 @@ function onSocketClose(err) {
 
 // Called by the C++ internals when the server busy state of
 // the QuicSocket has been changed.
-function onSocketServerBusy(on) {
-  this[owner_symbol][kServerBusy](!!on);
+function onSocketServerBusy() {
+  this[owner_symbol][kServerBusy]();
 }
 
 // Called by the C++ internals when a new server QuicSession has been created.
@@ -278,7 +283,11 @@ function onSessionReady(handle) {
       socket,
       handle,
       socket[kGetStreamOptions]());
-  process.nextTick(emit.bind(socket, 'session', session));
+  try {
+    socket.emit('session', session);
+  } catch (error) {
+    socket[kRejections](error, 'session', session);
+  }
 }
 
 // Called when the C++ QuicSession::Close() method has been called.
@@ -629,14 +638,12 @@ class QuicEndpoint {
     socket[kHandle].addEndpoint(handle, preferred);
   }
 
-  [kInspect]() {
-    // TODO(@jasnell): Proper custom inspect implementation
-    const obj = {
+  [kInspect](depth, options) {
+    return customInspect(this, {
       address: this.address,
-      fd: this[kInternalState].fd,
+      fd: this.fd,
       type: this[kInternalState].type === AF_INET6 ? 'udp6' : 'udp4'
-    };
-    return `QuicEndpoint ${util.format(obj)}`;
+    }, depth, options);
   }
 
   // afterLookup is invoked when binding a QuicEndpoint. The first
@@ -732,7 +739,8 @@ class QuicEndpoint {
   }
 
   get fd() {
-    return this[kInternalState].fd;
+    return this[kInternalState].fd >= 0 ?
+      this[kInternalState].fd : undefined;
   }
 
   // True if the QuicEndpoint has been destroyed and is
@@ -838,18 +846,17 @@ class QuicEndpoint {
 class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
   [kInternalState] = {
     alpn: undefined,
-    autoClose: undefined,
     client: undefined,
     defaultEncoding: undefined,
     endpoints: new Set(),
     highWaterMark: undefined,
+    listenPending: false,
     lookup: undefined,
     server: undefined,
-    serverBusy: undefined,
-    serverListening: false,
     serverSecureContext: undefined,
     sessions: new Set(),
     state: kSocketUnbound,
+    sharedState: undefined,
     stats: undefined,
   };
 
@@ -857,11 +864,6 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     const {
       endpoint,
 
-      // True if the QuicSocket should automatically enter a graceful shutdown
-      // if it is not listening as a server and the last QuicClientSession
-      // closes
-      autoClose,
-
       // Default configuration for QuicClientSessions
       client,
 
@@ -905,7 +907,6 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
 
     const state = this[kInternalState];
 
-    state.autoClose = autoClose;
     state.client = client;
     state.lookup = lookup || (type === AF_INET6 ? lookup6 : lookup4);
     state.server = server;
@@ -937,6 +938,21 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     });
   }
 
+  [kRejections](err, eventname, ...args) {
+    switch (eventname) {
+      case 'session':
+        const session = args[0];
+        session.destroy(err);
+        process.nextTick(() => {
+          this.emit('sessionError', err, session);
+        });
+        return;
+      default:
+        // Fall through
+    }
+    this.destroy(err);
+  }
+
   // Returns the default QuicStream options for peer-initiated
   // streams. These are passed on to new client and server
   // QuicSession instances when they are created.
@@ -953,17 +969,25 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     if (handle !== undefined) {
       handle[owner_symbol] = this;
       this[async_id_symbol] = handle.getAsyncId();
+      this[kInternalState].sharedState =
+        new QuicSocketSharedState(handle.state);
+    } else {
+      this[kInternalState].sharedState = undefined;
     }
   }
 
-  [kInspect]() {
-    // TODO(@jasnell): Proper custom inspect implementation
-    const state = this[kInternalState];
-    const obj = {
+  [kInspect](depth, options) {
+    return customInspect(this, {
       endpoints: this.endpoints,
-      sessions: state.sessions,
-    };
-    return `QuicSocket ${util.format(obj)}`;
+      sessions: this.sessions,
+      bound: this.bound,
+      pending: this.pending,
+      closing: this.closing,
+      destroyed: this.destroyed,
+      listening: this.listening,
+      serverBusy: this.serverBusy,
+      statelessResetDisabled: this.statelessResetDisabled,
+    }, depth, options);
   }
 
   [kAddSession](session) {
@@ -1010,7 +1034,13 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     // used to either listen or connect. No QuicServerSession should
     // exist before this event, and all QuicClientSession will remain
     // in Initial states until ready is invoked.
-    process.nextTick(emit.bind(this, 'ready'));
+    process.nextTick(() => {
+      try {
+        this.emit('ready');
+      } catch (error) {
+        this.destroy(error);
+      }
+    });
   }
 
   // Called when a QuicEndpoint closes
@@ -1052,9 +1082,15 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
   }
 
   // Called by the C++ internals to notify when server busy status is toggled.
-  [kServerBusy](on) {
-    this[kInternalState].serverBusy = on;
-    process.nextTick(emit.bind(this, 'busy', on));
+  [kServerBusy]() {
+    const busy = this.serverBusy;
+    process.nextTick(() => {
+      try {
+        this.emit('busy', busy);
+      } catch (error) {
+        this[kRejections](error, 'busy', busy);
+      }
+    });
   }
 
   addEndpoint(options = {}) {
@@ -1123,6 +1159,7 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     // server and will emit session events whenever a new QuicServerSession
     // is created.
     const state = this[kInternalState];
+    state.listenPending = false;
     this[kHandle].listen(
       state.serverSecureContext.context,
       address,
@@ -1130,7 +1167,13 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
       port,
       state.alpn,
       options);
-    process.nextTick(emit.bind(this, 'listening'));
+    process.nextTick(() => {
+      try {
+        this.emit('listening');
+      } catch (error) {
+        this.destroy(error);
+      }
+    });
   }
 
   // When the QuicSocket listen() function is called, the first step is to bind
@@ -1181,14 +1224,12 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
   // function.
   listen(options, callback) {
     const state = this[kInternalState];
-    if (state.serverListening)
-      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_LISTENING();
-
     if (state.state === kSocketDestroyed ||
         state.state === kSocketClosing) {
       throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED('listen');
     }
-
+    if (this.listening || state.listenPending)
+      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_LISTENING();
     if (typeof options === 'function') {
       callback = options;
       options = {};
@@ -1221,8 +1262,8 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
 
     state.highWaterMark = highWaterMark;
     state.defaultEncoding = defaultEncoding;
-    state.serverListening = true;
     state.alpn = alpn;
+    state.listenPending = true;
 
     // If the callback function is provided, it is registered as a
     // handler for the on('session') event and will be called whenever
@@ -1359,10 +1400,8 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     // listening for new QuicServerSession connections.
     // New initial connection packets for currently unknown
     // DCID's will be ignored.
-    if (this[kHandle]) {
-      this[kHandle].stopListening();
-    }
-    state.serverListening = false;
+    if (this[kHandle])
+      this[kInternalState].sharedState.serverListening = false;
 
     // If there are no sessions, calling maybeDestroy
     // will immediately and synchronously destroy the
@@ -1458,7 +1497,7 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
 
   // True if listen() has been called successfully
   get listening() {
-    return this[kInternalState].serverListening;
+    return Boolean(this[kInternalState].sharedState?.serverListening);
   }
 
   // True if the QuicSocket is currently waiting on at least one
@@ -1469,74 +1508,89 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
 
   // Marking a server as busy will cause all new
   // connection attempts to fail with a SERVER_BUSY CONNECTION_CLOSE.
-  setServerBusy(on = true) {
+  set serverBusy(on) {
     const state = this[kInternalState];
     if (state.state === kSocketDestroyed)
-      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED('setServerBusy');
+      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED('serverBusy');
     validateBoolean(on, 'on');
-    if (state.serverBusy !== on)
-      this[kHandle].setServerBusy(on);
+    if (state.sharedState.serverBusy !== on) {
+      state.sharedState.serverBusy = on;
+      this[kServerBusy]();
+    }
   }
 
   get serverBusy() {
-    return this[kInternalState].serverBusy;
+    return Boolean(this[kInternalState].sharedState?.serverBusy);
+  }
+
+  set statelessResetDisabled(on) {
+    const state = this[kInternalState];
+    if (state.state === kSocketDestroyed)
+      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED('statelessResetDisabled');
+    validateBoolean(on, 'on');
+    if (state.sharedState.statelessResetDisabled !== on)
+      state.sharedState.statelessResetDisabled = on;
+  }
+
+  get statelessResetDisabled() {
+    return Boolean(this[kInternalState].sharedState?.statelessResetDisabled);
   }
 
   get duration() {
     // TODO(@jasnell): If the object is destroyed, it should
     // use a fixed duration rather than calculating from now
-    return process.hrtime.bigint() -
-      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_CREATED_AT);
+    return Number(process.hrtime.bigint() -
+      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_CREATED_AT));
   }
 
   get boundDuration() {
     // TODO(@jasnell): If the object is destroyed, it should
     // use a fixed duration rather than calculating from now
-    return process.hrtime.bigint() -
-      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BOUND_AT);
+    return Number(process.hrtime.bigint() -
+      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BOUND_AT));
   }
 
   get listenDuration() {
     // TODO(@jasnell): If the object is destroyed, it should
     // use a fixed duration rather than calculating from now
-    return process.hrtime.bigint() -
-      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_LISTEN_AT);
+    return Number(process.hrtime.bigint() -
+      getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_LISTEN_AT));
   }
 
   get bytesReceived() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BYTES_RECEIVED);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BYTES_RECEIVED));
   }
 
   get bytesSent() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BYTES_SENT);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_BYTES_SENT));
   }
 
   get packetsReceived() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_RECEIVED);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_RECEIVED));
   }
 
   get packetsSent() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_SENT);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_SENT));
   }
 
   get packetsIgnored() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_IGNORED);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_PACKETS_IGNORED));
   }
 
   get serverSessions() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_SERVER_SESSIONS);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_SERVER_SESSIONS));
   }
 
   get clientSessions() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_CLIENT_SESSIONS);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_CLIENT_SESSIONS));
   }
 
   get statelessResetCount() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_STATELESS_RESET_COUNT);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_STATELESS_RESET_COUNT));
   }
 
   get serverBusyCount() {
-    return getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_SERVER_BUSY_COUNT);
+    return Number(getStats(this, IDX_QUIC_SOCKET_STATS_SERVER_BUSY_COUNT));
   }
 
   // Diagnostic packet loss is a testing mechanism that allows simulating
@@ -1569,18 +1623,6 @@ class QuicSocket extends EventEmitter {
     }
     this[kHandle].setDiagnosticPacketLoss(rx, tx);
   }
-
-  // Toggles stateless reset on/off. By default, stateless reset tokens
-  // are generated when necessary. The disableStatelessReset option may
-  // be used when the QuicSocket is created to disable generation of
-  // stateless resets. The toggleStatelessReset method allows the setting
-  // to be switched on/off dynamically through the lifetime of the
-  // socket.
-  toggleStatelessReset() {
-    if (this[kInternalState].state === kSocketDestroyed)
-      throw new ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED('toggleStatelessReset');
-    return this[kHandle].toggleStatelessReset();
-  }
 }
 
 class QuicSession extends EventEmitter {
@@ -1734,10 +1776,9 @@ class QuicSession extends EventEmitter {
     stream[kStreamReset](code);
   }
 
-  [kInspect]() {
-    // TODO(@jasnell): A proper custom inspect implementation
+  [kInspect](depth, options) {
     const state = this[kInternalState];
-    const obj = {
+    return customInspect(this, {
       alpn: state.alpn,
       cipher: this.cipher,
       closing: this.closing,
@@ -1747,12 +1788,7 @@ class QuicSession extends EventEmitter {
       maxStreams: this.maxStreams,
       servername: this.servername,
       streams: state.streams.size,
-      stats: {
-        handshakeAck: this.handshakeAckHistogram,
-        handshakeContinuation: this.handshakeContinuationHistogram,
-      }
-    };
-    return `${this.constructor.name} ${util.format(obj)}`;
+    }, depth, options);
   }
 
   [kSetSocket](socket) {
@@ -2676,23 +2712,17 @@ class QuicStream extends Duplex {
     // TODO(@jasnell): Implement this
   }
 
-  [kInspect]() {
+  [kInspect](depth, options) {
     // TODO(@jasnell): Proper custom inspect implementation
     const direction = this.bidirectional ? 'bidirectional' : 'unidirectional';
     const initiated = this.serverInitiated ? 'server' : 'client';
-    const obj = {
+    return customInspect(this, {
       id: this[kInternalState].id,
       direction,
       initiated,
       writableState: this._writableState,
-      readableState: this._readableState,
-      stats: {
-        dataRate: this.dataRateHistogram,
-        dataSize: this.dataSizeHistogram,
-        dataAck: this.dataAckHistogram,
-      }
-    };
-    return `QuicStream ${util.format(obj)}`;
+      readableState: this._readableState
+    }, depth, options);
   }
 
   [kTrackWriteState](stream, bytes) {
diff --git a/lib/internal/quic/util.js b/lib/internal/quic/util.js
index 143ee4dd8cef80..aff4f3cbc86afb 100644
--- a/lib/internal/quic/util.js
+++ b/lib/internal/quic/util.js
@@ -23,6 +23,8 @@ const {
   },
 } = require('internal/async_hooks');
 
+const { inspect } = require('internal/util/inspect');
+
 const { Readable } = require('stream');
 const {
   kHandle,
@@ -82,6 +84,10 @@ const {
     IDX_QUICSESSION_STATE_MAX_DATA_LEFT,
     IDX_QUICSESSION_STATE_BYTES_IN_FLIGHT,
 
+    IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_LISTENING,
+    IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_BUSY,
+    IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_STATELESS_RESET_DISABLED,
+
     IDX_HTTP3_QPACK_MAX_TABLE_CAPACITY,
     IDX_HTTP3_QPACK_BLOCKED_STREAMS,
     IDX_HTTP3_MAX_HEADER_LIST_SIZE,
@@ -514,7 +520,6 @@ function validateQuicSocketOptions(options = {}) {
   validateObject(options, 'options');
 
   const {
-    autoClose = false,
     client = {},
     disableStatelessReset = false,
     endpoint = { port: 0, type: 'udp4' },
@@ -538,7 +543,6 @@ function validateQuicSocketOptions(options = {}) {
   validateLookup(lookup);
   validateBoolean(validateAddress, 'options.validateAddress');
   validateBoolean(validateAddressLRU, 'options.validateAddressLRU');
-  validateBoolean(autoClose, 'options.autoClose');
   validateBoolean(qlog, 'options.qlog');
   validateBoolean(disableStatelessReset, 'options.disableStatelessReset');
 
@@ -576,7 +580,6 @@ function validateQuicSocketOptions(options = {}) {
 
   return {
     endpoint,
-    autoClose,
     client,
     lookup,
     maxConnections,
@@ -803,6 +806,39 @@ function toggleListeners(state, event, on) {
   }
 }
 
+class QuicSocketSharedState {
+  constructor(state) {
+    this[kHandle] = Buffer.from(state);
+  }
+
+  get serverListening() {
+    return Boolean(this[kHandle]
+      .readUInt8(IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_LISTENING));
+  }
+
+  set serverListening(on) {
+    this[kHandle].writeUInt8(on ? 1 : 0, IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_LISTENING);
+  }
+
+  get serverBusy() {
+    return Boolean(this[kHandle].readUInt8(IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_BUSY));
+  }
+
+  set serverBusy(on) {
+    this[kHandle].writeUInt8(on ? 1 : 0, IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_SERVER_BUSY);
+  }
+
+  get statelessResetDisabled() {
+    return Boolean(this[kHandle]
+      .readUInt8(IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_STATELESS_RESET_DISABLED));
+  }
+
+  set statelessResetDisabled(on) {
+    this[kHandle].writeUInt8(on ? 1 : 0,
+                             IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_STATELESS_RESET_DISABLED);
+  }
+}
+
 // A utility class used to handle reading / modifying shared JS/C++
 // state associated with a QuicSession
 class QuicSessionSharedState {
@@ -921,7 +957,20 @@ class QLogStream extends Readable {
   }
 }
 
+function customInspect(self, obj, depth, options) {
+  if (depth < 0)
+    return self;
+
+  const opts = {
+    ...options,
+    depth: options.depth == null ? null : options.depth - 1
+  };
+
+  return `${self.constructor.name} ${inspect(obj, opts)}`;
+}
+
 module.exports = {
+  customInspect,
   getAllowUnauthorized,
   getSocketType,
   lookup4,
@@ -938,6 +987,7 @@ module.exports = {
   validateQuicEndpointOptions,
   validateCreateSecureContextOptions,
   validateQuicSocketConnectOptions,
+  QuicSocketSharedState,
   QuicSessionSharedState,
   QLogStream,
 };
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic.cc b/src/quic/node_quic.cc
index a651c2f951ffdf..a7baf1aa6df559 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic.cc
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic.cc
@@ -205,6 +205,11 @@ void Initialize(Local<Object> target,
   QUICSESSION_SHARED_STATE(V)
 #undef V
 
+#define V(id, _, __)                                                           \
+  NODE_DEFINE_CONSTANT(constants, IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_##id);
+  QUICSOCKET_SHARED_STATE(V)
+#undef V
+
 #define V(name, _, __)                                                         \
   NODE_DEFINE_CONSTANT(constants, IDX_QUIC_SESSION_STATS_##name);
   SESSION_STATS(V)
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic_session.cc b/src/quic/node_quic_session.cc
index 75a1cc2b7f77b2..b47321e222e9c1 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic_session.cc
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic_session.cc
@@ -1453,6 +1453,9 @@ QuicSession::QuicSession(
       state_.GetArrayBuffer(),
       PropertyAttribute::ReadOnly).Check();
 
+  idle_.Unref();
+  retransmit_.Unref();
+
   // TODO(@jasnell): memory accounting
   // env_->isolate()->AdjustAmountOfExternalAllocatedMemory(kExternalSize);
 }
@@ -1679,11 +1682,6 @@ void QuicSession::Close(int close_flags) {
     listener()->OnSessionClose(error, close_flags);
   else
     Destroy();
-
-  // At this point, the QuicSession should have been destroyed, indicating
-  // that all cleanup on the JavaScript side has completed and the
-  // QuicSession::Destroy() method has been called.
-  CHECK(is_destroyed());
 }
 
 // Mark the QuicSession instance destroyed. This will either be invoked
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic_session.h b/src/quic/node_quic_session.h
index bac8bcd1b9a1a9..daa189d40d291c 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic_session.h
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic_session.h
@@ -65,9 +65,9 @@ typedef void(*PreferredAddressStrategy)(
 // stack created and use a combination of an AliasedBuffer to pass
 // the numeric settings quickly (see node_quic_state.h) and passed
 // in non-numeric settings (e.g. preferred_addr).
-class QuicSessionConfig : public ngtcp2_settings {
+class QuicSessionConfig final : public ngtcp2_settings {
  public:
-  QuicSessionConfig() {}
+  QuicSessionConfig() = default;
 
   explicit QuicSessionConfig(QuicState* quic_state) {
     Set(quic_state);
@@ -226,8 +226,8 @@ struct QuicSessionStatsTraits {
   static void ToString(const Base& ptr, Fn&& add_field);
 };
 
-class QLogStream : public AsyncWrap,
-                   public StreamBase {
+class QLogStream final : public AsyncWrap,
+                         public StreamBase {
  public:
   static BaseObjectPtr<QLogStream> Create(Environment* env);
 
@@ -311,7 +311,7 @@ class QuicSessionListener {
   friend class QuicSession;
 };
 
-class JSQuicSessionListener : public QuicSessionListener {
+class JSQuicSessionListener final : public QuicSessionListener {
  public:
   void OnKeylog(const char* str, size_t size) override;
   void OnClientHello(
@@ -363,7 +363,7 @@ class JSQuicSessionListener : public QuicSessionListener {
 
 // The QuicCryptoContext class encapsulates all of the crypto/TLS
 // handshake details on behalf of a QuicSession.
-class QuicCryptoContext : public MemoryRetainer {
+class QuicCryptoContext final : public MemoryRetainer {
  public:
   inline QuicCryptoContext(
       QuicSession* session,
@@ -697,12 +697,7 @@ class QuicApplication : public MemoryRetainer,
     V(SILENT_CLOSE, silent_closing)                                            \
     V(STATELESS_RESET, stateless_reset)
 
-// The QuicSession class is an virtual class that serves as
-// the basis for both client and server QuicSession.
-// It implements the functionality that is shared for both
-// QUIC clients and servers.
-//
-// QUIC sessions are virtual connections that exchange data
+// QUIC sessions are logical connections that exchange data
 // back and forth between peer endpoints via UDP. Every QuicSession
 // has an associated TLS context and all data transfered between
 // the peers is always encrypted. Unlike TLS over TCP, however,
@@ -713,9 +708,11 @@ class QuicApplication : public MemoryRetainer,
 // correction mechanisms to recover from lost packets, and flow
 // control. In other words, there's quite a bit going on within
 // a QuicSession object.
-class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
-                    public mem::NgLibMemoryManager<QuicSession, ngtcp2_mem>,
-                    public StatsBase<QuicSessionStatsTraits> {
+class QuicSession final : public AsyncWrap,
+                          public mem::NgLibMemoryManager<
+                              QuicSession,
+                              ngtcp2_mem>,
+                          public StatsBase<QuicSessionStatsTraits> {
  public:
   // The default preferred address strategy is to ignore it
   static void IgnorePreferredAddressStrategy(
@@ -1080,13 +1077,15 @@ class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
   // within the context of an ngtcp2 callback. When within an ngtcp2
   // callback, SendPendingData will always be called when the callbacks
   // complete.
-  class SendSessionScope {
+  class SendSessionScope final {
    public:
     explicit SendSessionScope(QuicSession* session)
         : session_(session) {
       CHECK(session_);
     }
 
+    SendSessionScope(const SendSessionScope& other) = delete;
+
     ~SendSessionScope() {
       if (Ngtcp2CallbackScope::InNgtcp2CallbackScope(session_.get()) ||
           session_->is_in_closing_period() ||
@@ -1103,7 +1102,7 @@ class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
   // ConnectionCloseScope triggers sending a CONNECTION_CLOSE
   // when not executing within the context of an ngtcp2 callback
   // and the session is in the correct state.
-  class ConnectionCloseScope {
+  class ConnectionCloseScope final {
    public:
     ConnectionCloseScope(QuicSession* session, bool silent = false)
         : session_(session),
@@ -1116,6 +1115,8 @@ class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
         session_->set_in_connection_close_scope();
     }
 
+    ConnectionCloseScope(const ConnectionCloseScope& other) = delete;
+
     ~ConnectionCloseScope() {
       if (silent_ ||
           Ngtcp2CallbackScope::InNgtcp2CallbackScope(session_.get()) ||
@@ -1135,7 +1136,7 @@ class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
   // Tracks whether or not we are currently within an ngtcp2 callback
   // function. Certain ngtcp2 APIs are not supposed to be called when
   // within a callback. We use this as a gate to check.
-  class Ngtcp2CallbackScope {
+  class Ngtcp2CallbackScope final {
    public:
     explicit Ngtcp2CallbackScope(QuicSession* session) : session_(session) {
       CHECK(session_);
@@ -1143,6 +1144,8 @@ class QuicSession : public AsyncWrap,
       session_->set_in_ngtcp2_callback();
     }
 
+    Ngtcp2CallbackScope(const Ngtcp2CallbackScope& other) = delete;
+
     ~Ngtcp2CallbackScope() {
       session_->set_in_ngtcp2_callback(false);
     }
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic_socket-inl.h b/src/quic/node_quic_socket-inl.h
index bcc85d82314f22..4d334a19f5b665 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic_socket-inl.h
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic_socket-inl.h
@@ -90,20 +90,6 @@ void QuicSocket::DisassociateStatelessResetToken(
   token_map_.erase(token);
 }
 
-// StopListening is called when the QuicSocket is no longer
-// accepting new server connections. Typically, this is called
-// when the QuicSocket enters a graceful closing state where
-// existing sessions are allowed to close naturally but new
-// sessions are rejected.
-void QuicSocket::StopListening() {
-  if (is_server_listening()) {
-    Debug(this, "Stop listening");
-    set_server_listening(false);
-    // It is important to not call ReceiveStop here as there
-    // is ongoing traffic being exchanged by the peers.
-  }
-}
-
 void QuicSocket::ReceiveStart() {
   for (const auto& endpoint : endpoints_)
     CHECK_EQ(endpoint->ReceiveStart(), 0);
@@ -157,8 +143,8 @@ size_t QuicSocket::GetCurrentStatelessResetCounter(const SocketAddress& addr) {
 
 void QuicSocket::ServerBusy(bool on) {
   Debug(this, "Turning Server Busy Response %s", on ? "on" : "off");
-  set_server_busy(on);
-  listener_->OnServerBusy(on);
+  state_->server_busy = on ? 1 : 0;
+  listener_->OnServerBusy();
 }
 
 bool QuicSocket::is_diagnostic_packet_loss(double prob) const {
@@ -173,11 +159,6 @@ void QuicSocket::set_diagnostic_packet_loss(double rx, double tx) {
   tx_loss_ = tx;
 }
 
-bool QuicSocket::ToggleStatelessReset() {
-  set_stateless_reset_disabled(!is_stateless_reset_disabled());
-  return !is_stateless_reset_disabled();
-}
-
 void QuicSocket::set_validated_address(const SocketAddress& addr) {
   if (has_option_validate_address_lru()) {
     // Remove the oldest item if we've hit the LRU limit
@@ -215,7 +196,7 @@ void QuicSocket::AddEndpoint(
   if (preferred || endpoints_.empty())
     preferred_endpoint_ = endpoint_;
   endpoints_.emplace_back(endpoint_);
-  if (is_server_listening())
+  if (state_->server_listening)
     endpoint_->ReceiveStart();
 }
 
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic_socket.cc b/src/quic/node_quic_socket.cc
index b51edee6c9be9a..8c6fc253dad6dc 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic_socket.cc
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic_socket.cc
@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 #include "node_quic_socket-inl.h"  // NOLINT(build/include)
+#include "aliased_struct-inl.h"
 #include "allocated_buffer-inl.h"
 #include "async_wrap-inl.h"
 #include "debug_utils-inl.h"
@@ -38,6 +39,7 @@ using v8::Local;
 using v8::Number;
 using v8::Object;
 using v8::ObjectTemplate;
+using v8::PropertyAttribute;
 using v8::String;
 using v8::Value;
 
@@ -115,9 +117,9 @@ void QuicSocketListener::OnSessionReady(BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> session) {
     previous_listener_->OnSessionReady(session);
 }
 
-void QuicSocketListener::OnServerBusy(bool busy) {
+void QuicSocketListener::OnServerBusy() {
   if (previous_listener_ != nullptr)
-    previous_listener_->OnServerBusy(busy);
+    previous_listener_->OnServerBusy();
 }
 
 void QuicSocketListener::OnEndpointDone(QuicEndpoint* endpoint) {
@@ -145,12 +147,12 @@ void JSQuicSocketListener::OnSessionReady(BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> session) {
   socket()->MakeCallback(env->quic_on_session_ready_function(), 1, &arg);
 }
 
-void JSQuicSocketListener::OnServerBusy(bool busy) {
+void JSQuicSocketListener::OnServerBusy() {
   Environment* env = socket()->env();
   HandleScope handle_scope(env->isolate());
   Context::Scope context_scope(env->context());
-  Local<Value> arg = Boolean::New(env->isolate(), busy);
-  socket()->MakeCallback(env->quic_on_socket_server_busy_function(), 1, &arg);
+  socket()->MakeCallback(
+      env->quic_on_socket_server_busy_function(), 0, nullptr);
 }
 
 void JSQuicSocketListener::OnEndpointDone(QuicEndpoint* endpoint) {
@@ -252,6 +254,7 @@ QuicSocket::QuicSocket(
       StatsBase(quic_state->env(), wrap),
       alloc_info_(MakeAllocator()),
       options_(options),
+      state_(quic_state->env()->isolate()),
       max_connections_(max_connections),
       max_connections_per_host_(max_connections_per_host),
       max_stateless_resets_per_host_(max_stateless_resets_per_host),
@@ -266,8 +269,14 @@ QuicSocket::QuicSocket(
 
   EntropySource(token_secret_, kTokenSecretLen);
 
+  wrap->DefineOwnProperty(
+      env()->context(),
+      env()->state_string(),
+      state_.GetArrayBuffer(),
+      PropertyAttribute::ReadOnly).Check();
+
   if (disable_stateless_reset)
-    set_stateless_reset_disabled();
+    state_->stateless_reset_disabled = 1;
 
   // Set the session reset secret to the one provided or random.
   // Note that a random secret is going to make it exceedingly
@@ -316,13 +325,13 @@ void QuicSocket::Listen(
     const std::string& alpn,
     uint32_t options) {
   CHECK(sc);
-  CHECK(!is_server_listening());
+  CHECK_NE(state_->server_listening, 1);
   Debug(this, "Starting to listen");
   server_session_config_.Set(quic_state(), preferred_address);
   server_secure_context_ = sc;
   server_alpn_ = alpn;
   server_options_ = options;
-  set_server_listening();
+  state_->server_listening = 1;
   RecordTimestamp(&QuicSocketStats::listen_at);
   ReceiveStart();
 }
@@ -391,7 +400,7 @@ bool QuicSocket::MaybeStatelessReset(
     const SocketAddress& local_addr,
     const SocketAddress& remote_addr,
     unsigned int flags) {
-  if (UNLIKELY(is_stateless_reset_disabled() || nread < 16))
+  if (UNLIKELY(state_->stateless_reset_disabled || nread < 16))
     return false;
   StatelessResetToken possible_token(
       data + nread - NGTCP2_STATELESS_RESET_TOKENLEN);
@@ -620,7 +629,7 @@ bool QuicSocket::SendStatelessReset(
     const SocketAddress& local_addr,
     const SocketAddress& remote_addr,
     size_t source_len) {
-  if (UNLIKELY(is_stateless_reset_disabled()))
+  if (UNLIKELY(state_->stateless_reset_disabled))
     return false;
   constexpr static size_t kRandlen = NGTCP2_MIN_STATELESS_RESET_RANDLEN * 5;
   constexpr static size_t kMinStatelessResetLen = 41;
@@ -737,7 +746,7 @@ BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> QuicSocket::AcceptInitialPacket(
   QuicCID ocid;
 
   // If the QuicSocket is not listening, the paket will be ignored.
-  if (!is_server_listening()) {
+  if (!state_->server_listening) {
     Debug(this, "QuicSocket is not listening");
     return {};
   }
@@ -762,7 +771,7 @@ BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> QuicSocket::AcceptInitialPacket(
   // Else, check to see if the number of connections total for this QuicSocket
   // has been exceeded. If the count has been exceeded, shutdown the connection
   // immediately after the initial keys are installed.
-  if (UNLIKELY(is_server_busy()) ||
+  if (UNLIKELY(state_->server_busy == 1) ||
       sessions_.size() >= max_connections_ ||
       GetCurrentSocketAddressCounter(remote_addr) >=
           max_connections_per_host_) {
@@ -1115,25 +1124,6 @@ void QuicSocketListen(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
       options);
 }
 
-void QuicSocketStopListening(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
-  QuicSocket* socket;
-  ASSIGN_OR_RETURN_UNWRAP(&socket, args.Holder());
-  socket->StopListening();
-}
-
-void QuicSocketSetServerBusy(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
-  QuicSocket* socket;
-  ASSIGN_OR_RETURN_UNWRAP(&socket, args.Holder());
-  CHECK_EQ(args.Length(), 1);
-  socket->ServerBusy(args[0]->IsTrue());
-}
-
-void QuicSocketToggleStatelessReset(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
-  QuicSocket* socket;
-  ASSIGN_OR_RETURN_UNWRAP(&socket, args.Holder());
-  args.GetReturnValue().Set(socket->ToggleStatelessReset());
-}
-
 void QuicEndpointWaitForPendingCallbacks(
     const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
   QuicEndpoint* endpoint;
@@ -1190,15 +1180,6 @@ void QuicSocket::Initialize(
   env->SetProtoMethod(socket,
                       "setDiagnosticPacketLoss",
                       QuicSocketSetDiagnosticPacketLoss);
-  env->SetProtoMethod(socket,
-                      "setServerBusy",
-                      QuicSocketSetServerBusy);
-  env->SetProtoMethod(socket,
-                      "stopListening",
-                      QuicSocketStopListening);
-  env->SetProtoMethod(socket,
-                      "toggleStatelessReset",
-                      QuicSocketToggleStatelessReset);
   socket->Inherit(HandleWrap::GetConstructorTemplate(env));
   target->Set(context, class_name,
               socket->GetFunction(env->context()).ToLocalChecked()).FromJust();
diff --git a/src/quic/node_quic_socket.h b/src/quic/node_quic_socket.h
index a9d4058fb7a1e0..41092c344c8f16 100644
--- a/src/quic/node_quic_socket.h
+++ b/src/quic/node_quic_socket.h
@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
 
 #if defined(NODE_WANT_INTERNALS) && NODE_WANT_INTERNALS
 
+#include "aliased_struct.h"
 #include "base_object.h"
 #include "node.h"
 #include "node_crypto.h"
@@ -47,12 +48,24 @@ enum QuicSocketOptions : uint32_t {
 };
 #undef V
 
-#define QUICSOCKET_FLAGS(V)                                                    \
-    V(GRACEFUL_CLOSE, graceful_closing)                                        \
-    V(WAITING_FOR_CALLBACKS, waiting_for_callbacks)                            \
-    V(SERVER_LISTENING, server_listening)                                      \
-    V(SERVER_BUSY, server_busy)                                                \
-    V(DISABLE_STATELESS_RESET, stateless_reset_disabled)
+#define QUICSOCKET_SHARED_STATE(V)                                             \
+    V(SERVER_LISTENING, server_listening, uint8_t)                             \
+    V(SERVER_BUSY, server_busy, uint8_t)                                       \
+    V(STATELESS_RESET_DISABLED, stateless_reset_disabled, uint8_t)
+
+#define V(_, name, type) type name;
+struct QuicSocketState {
+  QUICSOCKET_SHARED_STATE(V)
+};
+#undef V
+
+#define V(id, name, _)                                                         \
+    IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_##id = offsetof(QuicSocketState, name),
+enum QuicSocketStateFields {
+  QUICSOCKET_SHARED_STATE(V)
+  IDX_QUICSOCKET_STATE_END
+};
+#undef V
 
 #define SOCKET_STATS(V)                                                        \
   V(CREATED_AT, created_at, "Created At")                                      \
@@ -98,7 +111,7 @@ class QuicSocketListener {
 
   virtual void OnError(ssize_t code);
   virtual void OnSessionReady(BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> session);
-  virtual void OnServerBusy(bool busy);
+  virtual void OnServerBusy();
   virtual void OnEndpointDone(QuicEndpoint* endpoint);
   virtual void OnDestroy();
 
@@ -114,7 +127,7 @@ class JSQuicSocketListener final : public QuicSocketListener {
  public:
   void OnError(ssize_t code) override;
   void OnSessionReady(BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> session) override;
-  void OnServerBusy(bool busy) override;
+  void OnServerBusy() override;
   void OnEndpointDone(QuicEndpoint* endpoint) override;
   void OnDestroy() override;
 };
@@ -357,35 +370,19 @@ class QuicSocket : public AsyncWrap,
       std::unique_ptr<QuicPacket> packet,
       BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession> session = BaseObjectPtr<QuicSession>());
 
-#define V(id, name)                                                            \
-  inline bool is_##name() const {                                              \
-    return flags_ & (1 << QUICSOCKET_FLAG_##id); }                             \
-  inline void set_##name(bool on = true) {                                     \
-    if (on)                                                                    \
-      flags_ |= (1 << QUICSOCKET_FLAG_##id);                                   \
-    else                                                                       \
-      flags_ &= ~(1 << QUICSOCKET_FLAG_##id);                                  \
-  }
-  QUICSOCKET_FLAGS(V)
-#undef V
-
 #define V(id, name)                                                            \
   bool has_option_##name() const {                                             \
     return options_ & (1 << QUICSOCKET_OPTIONS_##id); }
   QUICSOCKET_OPTIONS(V)
 #undef V
 
+  // Allows the server busy status to be enabled from C++. A notification
+  // will be sent to the JavaScript side informing that the status has
+  // changed.
   inline void ServerBusy(bool on);
 
   inline void set_diagnostic_packet_loss(double rx = 0.0, double tx = 0.0);
 
-  inline void StopListening();
-
-  // Toggles whether or not stateless reset is enabled or not.
-  // Returns true if stateless reset is enabled, false if it
-  // is not.
-  inline bool ToggleStatelessReset();
-
   BaseObjectPtr<crypto::SecureContext> server_secure_context() const {
     return server_secure_context_;
   }
@@ -513,13 +510,6 @@ class QuicSocket : public AsyncWrap,
   // and the current packet should be artificially considered lost.
   inline bool is_diagnostic_packet_loss(double prob) const;
 
-#define V(id, _) QUICSOCKET_FLAG_##id,
-  enum QuicSocketFlags : uint32_t {
-    QUICSOCKET_FLAGS(V)
-    QUICSOCKET_FLAG_COUNT
-  };
-#undef V
-
   ngtcp2_mem alloc_info_;
 
   std::vector<BaseObjectPtr<QuicEndpoint>> endpoints_;
@@ -530,6 +520,8 @@ class QuicSocket : public AsyncWrap,
   uint32_t options_ = 0;
   uint32_t server_options_;
 
+  AliasedStruct<QuicSocketState> state_;
+
   size_t max_connections_ = DEFAULT_MAX_CONNECTIONS;
   size_t max_connections_per_host_ = DEFAULT_MAX_CONNECTIONS_PER_HOST;
   size_t current_ngtcp2_memory_ = 0;
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-client-server.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-client-server.js
index 90df11bbb77314..82d55410c0f4cf 100644
--- a/test/parallel/test-quic-client-server.js
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-client-server.js
@@ -58,6 +58,7 @@ server.listen({
   rejectUnauthorized: false,
   alpn: kALPN,
 });
+
 server.on('session', common.mustCall((session) => {
   debug('QuicServerSession Created');
 
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-errors-quicsocket-create.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-errors-quicsocket-create.js
index 57d72e5e6dbd75..64c27a50f2701a 100644
--- a/test/parallel/test-quic-errors-quicsocket-create.js
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-errors-quicsocket-create.js
@@ -82,13 +82,6 @@ const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
   });
 });
 
-// Test invalid QuicSocket autoClose argument option
-[1, NaN, 1n, null, {}, []].forEach((autoClose) => {
-  assert.throws(() => createQuicSocket({ autoClose }), {
-    code: 'ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE'
-  });
-});
-
 // Test invalid QuicSocket qlog argument option
 [1, NaN, 1n, null, {}, []].forEach((qlog) => {
   assert.throws(() => createQuicSocket({ qlog }), {
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-maxconnectionsperhost.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-maxconnectionsperhost.js
index b94849b88272c3..b8370766c0c661 100644
--- a/test/parallel/test-quic-maxconnectionsperhost.js
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-maxconnectionsperhost.js
@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ const kALPN = 'zzz';
   server.on('session', common.mustCall(() => {}, kMaxConnectionsPerHost));
 
   server.on('close', common.mustCall(() => {
-    assert.strictEqual(server.serverBusyCount, 1n);
+    assert.strictEqual(server.serverBusyCount, 1);
   }));
 
   server.on('ready', common.mustCall(() => {
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket-serverbusy.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket-serverbusy.js
index 35cc29d8f098b0..8354f09662d74c 100644
--- a/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket-serverbusy.js
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket-serverbusy.js
@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ server.on('busy', common.mustCall((busy) => {
 
 // When the server is set as busy, all connections
 // will be rejected with a SERVER_BUSY response.
-server.setServerBusy();
+server.serverBusy = true;
 server.listen();
 
 server.on('close', common.mustCall());
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket.js
index b7c11661205c87..efbce64f8fd4a1 100644
--- a/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket.js
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-quicsocket.js
@@ -31,16 +31,16 @@ assert(!socket.pending);
 // Socket is not destroyed
 assert(!socket.destroyed);
 
-assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.duration, 'bigint');
-assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.boundDuration, 'bigint');
-assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.listenDuration, 'bigint');
-assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.bytesReceived, 'bigint');
-assert.strictEqual(socket.bytesReceived, 0n);
-assert.strictEqual(socket.bytesSent, 0n);
-assert.strictEqual(socket.packetsReceived, 0n);
-assert.strictEqual(socket.packetsSent, 0n);
-assert.strictEqual(socket.serverSessions, 0n);
-assert.strictEqual(socket.clientSessions, 0n);
+assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.duration, 'number');
+assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.boundDuration, 'number');
+assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.listenDuration, 'number');
+assert.strictEqual(typeof socket.bytesReceived, 'number');
+assert.strictEqual(socket.bytesReceived, 0);
+assert.strictEqual(socket.bytesSent, 0);
+assert.strictEqual(socket.packetsReceived, 0);
+assert.strictEqual(socket.packetsSent, 0);
+assert.strictEqual(socket.serverSessions, 0);
+assert.strictEqual(socket.clientSessions, 0);
 
 const endpoint = socket.endpoints[0];
 assert(endpoint);
@@ -83,8 +83,8 @@ assert(endpoint);
   });
 });
 
-[1, 1n, [], {}, null].forEach((args) => {
-  assert.throws(() => socket.setServerBusy(args), {
+[1, 1n, [], {}, null].forEach((arg) => {
+  assert.throws(() => socket.serverBusy = arg, {
     code: 'ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE'
   });
 });
@@ -143,12 +143,7 @@ socket.on('close', common.mustCall(() => {
     });
   });
 
-  [
-    'setServerBusy',
-  ].forEach((op) => {
-    assert.throws(() => socket[op](), {
-      code: 'ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED',
-      message: `Cannot call ${op} after a QuicSocket has been destroyed`
-    });
+  assert.throws(() => { socket.serverBusy = true; }, {
+    code: 'ERR_QUICSOCKET_DESTROYED'
   });
 }));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error-async.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error-async.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..7e8f86b68988d0
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error-async.js
@@ -0,0 +1,32 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('busy', common.mustCall(async () => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('close', common.mustCall());
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((err) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+assert.strictEqual(server.serverBusy, false);
+server.serverBusy = true;
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..d71e9d25e70ca8
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-busy-event-error.js
@@ -0,0 +1,32 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('busy', common.mustCall(() => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('close', common.mustCall());
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((err) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+assert.strictEqual(server.serverBusy, false);
+server.serverBusy = true;
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error-async.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error-async.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..ea12a2455950be
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error-async.js
@@ -0,0 +1,33 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('ready', common.mustCall());
+
+server.on('listening', common.mustCall(async () => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..8601d39e6817de
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-listening-event-error.js
@@ -0,0 +1,33 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('ready', common.mustCall());
+
+server.on('listening', common.mustCall(() => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error-async.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error-async.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..4d42d4725df0d9
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error-async.js
@@ -0,0 +1,31 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('ready', common.mustCall(async () => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..df3e626530999a
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-ready-event-error.js
@@ -0,0 +1,31 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.on('error', common.mustCall((error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('ready', common.mustCall(() => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error-async.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error-async.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..01c80688a3623f
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error-async.js
@@ -0,0 +1,58 @@
+// Flags: --expose-internals --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const { internalBinding } = require('internal/test/binding');
+const {
+  constants: {
+    NGTCP2_CONNECTION_REFUSED
+  }
+} = internalBinding('quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustCall(async (session) => {
+  session.on('close', common.mustCall());
+  session.on('error', common.mustCall((err) => {
+    assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+  }));
+  // Throwing inside the session event handler should cause
+  // the session to be destroyed immediately. This should
+  // cause the client side to be closed also.
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('sessionError', common.mustCall((err, session) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+  assert(session.destroyed);
+}));
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.once('listening', common.mustCall(() => {
+  const client = createQuicSocket({ client: options });
+  const req = client.connect({
+    address: 'localhost',
+    port: server.endpoints[0].address.port
+  });
+  req.on('close', common.mustCall(() => {
+    assert.strictEqual(req.closeCode.code, NGTCP2_CONNECTION_REFUSED);
+    assert.strictEqual(req.closeCode.silent, true);
+    server.close();
+    client.close();
+  }));
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..60f846cb5f1b32
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-server-session-event-error.js
@@ -0,0 +1,58 @@
+// Flags: --expose-internals --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const { internalBinding } = require('internal/test/binding');
+const {
+  constants: {
+    NGTCP2_CONNECTION_REFUSED
+  }
+} = internalBinding('quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('session', common.mustCall((session) => {
+  session.on('close', common.mustCall());
+  session.on('error', common.mustCall((err) => {
+    assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+  }));
+  // Throwing inside the session event handler should cause
+  // the session to be destroyed immediately. This should
+  // cause the client side to be closed also.
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+server.on('sessionError', common.mustCall((err, session) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(err.message, 'boom');
+  assert(session.destroyed);
+}));
+
+server.listen();
+
+server.once('listening', common.mustCall(() => {
+  const client = createQuicSocket({ client: options });
+  const req = client.connect({
+    address: 'localhost',
+    port: server.endpoints[0].address.port
+  });
+  req.on('close', common.mustCall(() => {
+    assert.strictEqual(req.closeCode.code, NGTCP2_CONNECTION_REFUSED);
+    assert.strictEqual(req.closeCode.silent, true);
+    server.close();
+    client.close();
+  }));
+}));
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error-async.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error-async.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..3b4baf595a6618
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error-async.js
@@ -0,0 +1,31 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('error', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.on('close', common.mustCall(async () => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+process.on('uncaughtException', (error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+});
+
+server.destroy();
diff --git a/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error.js b/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error.js
new file mode 100644
index 00000000000000..5160698518f345
--- /dev/null
+++ b/test/parallel/test-quic-socket-close-event-error.js
@@ -0,0 +1,31 @@
+// Flags: --no-warnings
+'use strict';
+
+const common = require('../common');
+if (!common.hasQuic)
+  common.skip('missing quic');
+
+const assert = require('assert');
+const {
+  key,
+  cert,
+  ca,
+} = require('../common/quic');
+
+const { createQuicSocket } = require('net');
+
+const options = { key, cert, ca, alpn: 'zzz' };
+
+const server = createQuicSocket({ server: options });
+
+server.on('error', common.mustNotCall());
+
+server.on('close', common.mustCall(() => {
+  throw new Error('boom');
+}));
+
+process.on('uncaughtException', (error) => {
+  assert.strictEqual(error.message, 'boom');
+});
+
+server.destroy();