fix(core): git hash-object errors must be logged for troubleshooting

[jonhamm]

When executing parallel targets using e.g. run-commands missing entries in .gitignore
may lead to temp files being passed to "git hash-object"
which when git executes have been deleted resulting in
mismatch between number of files requested and hashes returned.
git reports the error and this PR will make sure that report is passed in the error thrown.
This will make problem resolution a lot faster.

ISSUES CLOSED: #9946

Current Behavior

If some directory - e.g. .npm - is not present in .gitignore parallel builds adding and removing files in such a temporary directory may result in these files being passed to git hash-object.
This will show up as an error:
> NX Passed 11161 file paths to Git to hash, but received 11148 hashes.
and the build fails.
Trouble shooting this is a bit hard because there is no hint as to which file(s) were between gathering files and requesting hash calculation.

Expected Behavior

The error output from git hash-object will show at least one of the files that could not be hashed.
We want this error info in the log along with the current - e.g.

> NX Passed 2 file paths to Git to hash, but received 1 hashes.
fatal: Cannot open 'b.txt': No such file or directory
```

## Related Issue(s)
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Fixes #

The `spawnProcess()` that is used to invoke `git hash-object` now returns both `stdout` and `stderr`.
If the caller discovers a discrepancy between the number of files passed to `git hash-object` and the number of hashes returned an error is thrown (as previously) but now this error will also contain `stderrr`

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