chore: hoist dependencies to speed up ci

[dyladan]

Similar to what @blumamir did in contrib

Also update dependencies which didn't match the hoisted versions in order to speed up the hoist.

Tests now run in under 5 minutes in CI with a cache miss

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #2416 (5961f55) into main (40d0423) will increase coverage by 0.04%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

❗ Current head 5961f55 differs from pull request most recent head 08ca33d. Consider uploading reports for the commit 08ca33d to get more accurate results

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+ Coverage   92.62%   92.66%   +0.04%     
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  Files         137      137              
  Lines        4975     4975              
  Branches     1048     1048              
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+ Hits         4608     4610       +2     
+ Misses        367      365       -2     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...emetry-core/src/platform/node/RandomIdGenerator.ts	93.75% <0.00%> (+6.25%)	⬆️
...emetry-api-metrics/src/platform/node/globalThis.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (+100.00%)	⬆️

[Flarna]

I have seen following warning in CI runs:

lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "backcompat-node10" package depends on @types/node@10.17.60, which differs from the hoisted @types/node@14.17.9.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "backcompat-node12" package depends on @types/node@12.20.19, which differs from the hoisted @types/node@14.17.9.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "backcompat-node8" package depends on @types/node@8.10.66, which differs from the hoisted @types/node@14.17.9.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-grpc" package depends on semver@7.3.5, which differs from the hoisted semver@^7.3.5.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/sdk-node" package depends on semver@7.3.5, which differs from the hoisted semver@^7.3.5.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/instrumentation" package depends on semver@^7.3.2, which differs from the hoisted semver@^7.3.5.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/exporter-collector-grpc" package depends on @grpc/grpc-js@^1.3.7, which differs from the hoisted @grpc/grpc-js@1.3.7.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-grpc" package depends on @grpc/proto-loader@0.6.4, which differs from the hoisted @grpc/proto-loader@^0.6.4.
lerna WARN EHOIST_PKG_VERSION "@opentelemetry/instrumentation" package depends on shimmer@^1.2.1, which differs from the hoisted shimmer@1.2.1.

In special the first few indicated that backcompat tests might be useless now.