HMR in react when developing causes client disconnects

[stephenlacy]

This only appears in local dev. usePartySocket changes the clientId when I save a file that causes a HMR update.
(partysocket/react is only affected, server works fine)

Repro: https://github.com/stephenlacy/partykit-repro-2

pnpm i
pnpm dev

Open http://localhost:5173/
Save App.tsx, Page.tsx, etc
The socket.id changes on HMR.
I would expect the socket state to remain as other state values don't get affected by a HMR. I did a quick look into the hook and believe the ref/state memo is triggering a re-connect.