using esbuild to bundle node_modules instead of commonjs to speed up build

[hardfist]

Clear and concise description of the problem

vite build is kind of slow because it uses rollup-plugin-commonjs to transform node_modules cjs module to esm, which is slow and tricky.

Suggested solution

we may bundle node_modules using esbuild instead of rollup-plugin-commonjs in build(which dev already did), and it not only speeds up build speed dramatically and consistent with dev mode.
And I made an poc here #3192

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Additional context

[hardfist]

/cc @antfu @underfin

[thelinuxlich]

you could provide this as a plugin

[bluwy]

This has also been discussed in #4921

[bluwy]

Supported in #8280