fix: disable inlineDynamicImports for ssr.target = node

[sapphi-red]

Description

inlineDynamicImports was enabled for both ssr.target = 'node' and ssr.target = 'webworker'.

AFAIK there's no reason to force the output to be a single file when ssr.target is node and inlineDynamicImports option has a caveat.
So I think we should not enable inlineDynamicImports for ssr.target = 'node' by default.

WIP: I need to check if it does not affect ssr manifest because this commit (107e79e) introduced this change. playground/ssr-vue seems to work.
WIP: add docs

fixes #7356
fixes #8571

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