fix(ssr): allow virtual paths on node modules

[bluwy]

Description

fix #9364

Additional context

Catch errors from tryNodeResolve and no externalize if an error is caught so we process it through Vite.

Maybe also worth discussing whether we want to support #9364

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[patak-dev]

I'm a bit afraid of this making bugs in this branch harder to triage later, but I don't see a way out of having this try/catch guard at this point.

[bluwy]

Perhaps we can add a debug log for edge cases like this? Since we cache the result, I don't think it would be noisy.

[patak-dev]

Perhaps we can add a debug log for edge cases like this? Since we cache the result, I don't think it would be noisy.

Yes, I think a debug log is a good idea 👍🏼

[patak-dev]

I'll merge this one so we can cut a release. Let's add the debug message in another PR.