fix(VMenu): activator should not return non Element nodes

[Tofandel]

Description

Fixes #13755

Motivation and Context

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• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Improvement/refactoring (non-breaking change that doesn't add any features but makes things better)

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• The PR is submitted to the correct branch (master for bug fixes and documentation updates, dev for new features and backwards compatible changes and next for non-backwards compatible changes).
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• I've added relevant changes to the documentation (applies to new features and breaking changes in core library)