Do not bundle react-dom in the SSR build (vercel#41227)

Currently `react-dom` isn't handled as an external dependency in SSR,
unlike `react`. This means that the ReactDOM imported by client
components isn't the same instance as the ReactDOM that does SSR.

This PR also upgrades React experimental to the latest version.

## Bug

- [ ] Related issues linked using `fixes #number`
- [ ] Integration tests added
- [ ] Errors have a helpful link attached, see `contributing.md`

## Feature

- [ ] Implements an existing feature request or RFC. Make sure the
feature request has been accepted for implementation before opening a
PR.
- [ ] Related issues linked using `fixes #number`
- [ ] Integration tests added
- [ ] Documentation added
- [ ] Telemetry added. In case of a feature if it's used or not.
- [ ] Errors have a helpful link attached, see `contributing.md`

## Documentation / Examples

- [ ] Make sure the linting passes by running `pnpm lint`
- [ ] The "examples guidelines" are followed from [our contributing
doc](https://github.com/vercel/next.js/blob/canary/contributing/examples/adding-examples.md)

package.json

@@ -183,8 +183,8 @@
     "react-17": "npm:react@17.0.2",
     "react-dom": "18.2.0",
     "react-dom-17": "npm:react-dom@17.0.2",
-    "react-dom-exp": "npm:react-dom@0.0.0-experimental-65b3449c8-20221005",
-    "react-exp": "npm:react@0.0.0-experimental-65b3449c8-20221005",
+    "react-dom-exp": "npm:react-dom@0.0.0-experimental-e40893d09-20221005",
+    "react-exp": "npm:react@0.0.0-experimental-e40893d09-20221005",
     "react-ssr-prepass": "1.0.8",
     "react-virtualized": "9.22.3",
     "relay-compiler": "13.0.2",

packages/next/build/webpack-config.ts

@@ -1049,7 +1049,7 @@ export default async function getBaseWebpackConfig(
     // Absolute requires (require('/foo')) are extremely uncommon, but
     // also have no need for customization as they're already resolved.
     if (!isLocal) {
-      if (/^(?:next$|react(?:$|\/))/.test(request)) {
+      if (/^(?:next$|react(?:$|\/)|react-dom(?:$|\/))/.test(request)) {
         return `commonjs ${request}`
       }