feat: add sqlite-based memory store for live workflows. Fixes #12025 … #2912

Job	Run time
Build & push linux (linux/amd64, workflow-controller)	2m 49s
Build & push windows	21m 59s
Build & push linux (linux/amd64, argocli)	4m 58s
Build & push linux (linux/amd64, argoexec)	4m 18s
Build & push linux (linux/arm64, workflow-controller)	18m 25s
Build & push linux (linux/arm64, argocli)	37m 59s
Build & push linux (linux/arm64, argoexec)	24m 55s
Push manifest with all images	17s
Try pulling linux/amd64 (linux/amd64, workflow-controller)	4s
Try pulling windows	20s
Try pulling linux/amd64 (linux/amd64, argocli)	8s
Try pulling linux/amd64 (linux/amd64, argoexec)	8s
publish-release	15m 8s
	2h 11m 28s

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