fix(custom-resources): fails to use latest SDK version (#29958)

### Issue # (if applicable)

Closes #29891

### Reason for this change
When setting AwsCustomResource with installLatestAwsSdk: true it fails to upgrade aws-sdk to latest version. The Lambda function created to support the custom resource usually time out after 120 seconds, and for some cases it get time out even after 900 seconds. 

### Description of changes
Update the Lambda function created for the custom resource to set its MemorySize to be 512 in case if installLatestAwsSdk flag is true instead of the default value 128.

Also, this change will expose the MemorySize to the AwsCustomResource construct, so customers can customize the MemorySize of the Lambda function to fulfill use cases that requires higher memory, CPU, or I/O performance.

### Description of how you validated changes
I added the unit test cases, and updated the integration test cases.

### Checklist
- [X] My code adheres to the [CONTRIBUTING GUIDE](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md) and [DESIGN GUIDELINES](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/docs/DESIGN_GUIDELINES.md)

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packages/@aws-cdk-testing/framework-integ/test/custom-resources/test/aws-custom-resource/integ.aws-custom-resource-athena.js.snapshot/aws-cdk-customresources-athena.template.json

@@ -164,6 +164,7 @@
      "S3Key": "746da84b10e215c552e68b6d2061024e4429f0386f43a35ef5e4d2940655692e.zip"
     },
     "Handler": "index.handler",
+    "MemorySize": 512,
     "Role": {
      "Fn::GetAtt": [
       "CustomResourceRoleAB1EF463",

packages/@aws-cdk-testing/framework-integ/test/custom-resources/test/aws-custom-resource/integ.aws-custom-resource-dynamodb.js.snapshot/aws-cdk-sdk-dynamodb.template.json

@@ -0,0 +1,178 @@
+{
+ "Resources": {
+  "myTableA48C5C70": {
+   "Type": "AWS::DynamoDB::Table",
+   "Properties": {
+    "AttributeDefinitions": [
+     {
+      "AttributeName": "id",
+      "AttributeType": "S"
+     }
+    ],
+    "KeySchema": [
+     {
+      "AttributeName": "id",
+      "KeyType": "HASH"
+     }
+    ],
+    "ProvisionedThroughput": {
+     "ReadCapacityUnits": 5,
+     "WriteCapacityUnits": 5
+    }
+   },
+   "UpdateReplacePolicy": "Delete",
+   "DeletionPolicy": "Delete"
+  },
+  "myCRE89CE839": {
+   "Type": "Custom::AWS",
+   "Properties": {
+    "ServiceToken": {
+     "Fn::GetAtt": [
+      "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd22872D164C4C",
+      "Arn"
+     ]
+    },
+    "Create": {
+     "Fn::Join": [
+      "",
+      [
+       "{\"service\":\"DynamoDB\",\"action\":\"PutItem\",\"parameters\":{\"Item\":{\"id\":{\"S\":\"test-value\"}},\"TableName\":\"",
+       {
+        "Ref": "myTableA48C5C70"
+       },
+       "\"},\"physicalResourceId\":{\"id\":\"myCRphysicalResourceID\"},\"logApiResponseData\":true}"
+      ]
+     ]
+    },
+    "Update": {
+     "Fn::Join": [
+      "",
+      [
+       "{\"service\":\"DynamoDB\",\"action\":\"PutItem\",\"parameters\":{\"service\":\"DynamoDB\",\"action\":\"PutItem\",\"parameters\":{\"Item\":{\"id\":{\"S\":\"test-value\"}},\"TableName\":\"",
+       {
+        "Ref": "myTableA48C5C70"
+       },
+       "\"},\"physicalResourceId\":{\"id\":\"myCRphysicalResourceID\"}},\"logApiResponseData\":true}"
+      ]
+     ]
+    },
+    "InstallLatestAwsSdk": true
+   },
+   "DependsOn": [
+    "myCRCustomResourcePolicy05AD5A90"
+   ],
+   "UpdateReplacePolicy": "Delete",
+   "DeletionPolicy": "Delete"
+  },
+  "myCRCustomResourcePolicy05AD5A90": {
+   "Type": "AWS::IAM::Policy",
+   "Properties": {
+    "PolicyDocument": {
+     "Statement": [
+      {
+       "Action": "dynamodb:PutItem",
+       "Effect": "Allow",
+       "Resource": "*"
+      }
+     ],
+     "Version": "2012-10-17"
+    },
+    "PolicyName": "myCRCustomResourcePolicy05AD5A90",
+    "Roles": [
+     {
+      "Ref": "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd2287ServiceRoleC1EA0FF2"
+     }
+    ]
+   }
+  },
+  "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd2287ServiceRoleC1EA0FF2": {
+   "Type": "AWS::IAM::Role",
+   "Properties": {
+    "AssumeRolePolicyDocument": {
+     "Statement": [
+      {
+       "Action": "sts:AssumeRole",
+       "Effect": "Allow",
+       "Principal": {
+        "Service": "lambda.amazonaws.com"
+       }
+      }
+     ],
+     "Version": "2012-10-17"
+    },
+    "ManagedPolicyArns": [
+     {
+      "Fn::Join": [
+       "",
+       [
+        "arn:",
+        {
+         "Ref": "AWS::Partition"
+        },
+        ":iam::aws:policy/service-role/AWSLambdaBasicExecutionRole"
+       ]
+      ]
+     }
+    ]
+   }
+  },
+  "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd22872D164C4C": {
+   "Type": "AWS::Lambda::Function",
+   "Properties": {
+    "Code": {
+     "S3Bucket": {
+      "Fn::Sub": "cdk-hnb659fds-assets-${AWS::AccountId}-${AWS::Region}"
+     },
+     "S3Key": "746da84b10e215c552e68b6d2061024e4429f0386f43a35ef5e4d2940655692e.zip"
+    },
+    "Handler": "index.handler",
+    "MemorySize": 1024,
+    "Role": {
+     "Fn::GetAtt": [
+      "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd2287ServiceRoleC1EA0FF2",
+      "Arn"
+     ]
+    },
+    "Runtime": "nodejs18.x",
+    "Timeout": 120
+   },
+   "DependsOn": [
+    "AWS679f53fac002430cb0da5b7982bd2287ServiceRoleC1EA0FF2"
+   ]
+  }
+ },
+ "Parameters": {
+  "BootstrapVersion": {
+   "Type": "AWS::SSM::Parameter::Value<String>",
+   "Default": "/cdk-bootstrap/hnb659fds/version",
+   "Description": "Version of the CDK Bootstrap resources in this environment, automatically retrieved from SSM Parameter Store. [cdk:skip]"
+  }
+ },
+ "Rules": {
+  "CheckBootstrapVersion": {
+   "Assertions": [
+    {
+     "Assert": {
+      "Fn::Not": [
+       {
+        "Fn::Contains": [
+         [
+          "1",
+          "2",
+          "3",
+          "4",
+          "5"
+         ],
+         {
+          "Ref": "BootstrapVersion"
+         }
+        ]
+       }
+      ]
+     },
+     "AssertDescription": "CDK bootstrap stack version 6 required. Please run 'cdk bootstrap' with a recent version of the CDK CLI."
+    }
+   ]
+  }
+ }
+}