carlo: implied command dependencies

Given build options (cargo workspace options, e.g. `-p my_crate`), the
`upload` command will build before uploading, and given build or upload
options `actvate` will build or upload before activating.

These primary options are mutually exclusive, but may require nested
ArgGroups in the future which are supposed to be supported, perhaps
aided by clap-rs/clap#2621 if resolved. The current constraints and
reuse of shared options is rather crude (see in particular
UploadOptsWrapper).

Introduces some technical debt with regards to server/client parity,
which should be unified under the carol_core crate.

crates/carlo/Cargo.toml

@@ -16,3 +16,4 @@ clap = { workspace = true }
 serde = { workspace = true }
 reqwest = { workspace = true }
 wit-component.workspace = true
+clap-cargo = { version = "0.10.0", features = [ "cargo_metadata" ] }