refactor: use InvalidateLayout() not DeprecatedLayoutImmediately()

[ckerr]

Description of Change

Replace our calls to the deprecated API DeprecatedLayoutImmediately() with InvalidateLayout() instead.

It looks like all of the occurrences were just to trigger a new draw & didn't necessarily rely on it happening immediately, so InvalidateLayout() is the call preferred by upstream.

Xref: https://crbug.com/1121681

Xref: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/5242027

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[ckerr]

Pasting CI failures here as breadcrumbs.

In order of likely to unlikely, these CI failures may be that the tests were coded to assume synchronous operations, or that this PR really is introducing new bugs, or maybe they're all CI flakes 😜

not ok 456 BrowserWindow module "useContentSize" option make window created with content size when used
  expected [ 120, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
  AssertionError: expected [ 120, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
      at Context.<anonymous> (electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts:2928:35)
      at processImmediate (node:internal/timers:478:21)
ok 457 BrowserWindow module "useContentSize" option make window created with window size when not used
not ok 458 BrowserWindow module "useContentSize" option works for a frameless window
  expected [ +0, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
  AssertionError: expected [ +0, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
      at Context.<anonymous> (electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts:2948:35)
      at processImmediate (node:internal/timers:478:21)
not ok 459 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option creates browser window with hidden title bar
  expected [ +0, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
  AssertionError: expected [ +0, +0 ] to deeply equal [ 400, 400 ]
      at Context.<anonymous> (electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts:3005:35)
      at processImmediate (node:internal/timers:478:21)
ok 460 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option creates browser window with hidden inset title bar # SKIP -
[4212:0419/032926.452:ERROR:surface_manager.cc(470)] Old/orphaned temporary reference to SurfaceId(FrameSinkId[](308, 3), LocalSurfaceId(5, 1, 869C...))
not ok 461 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option sets Window Control Overlay with hidden title bar
  Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
  Error: Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
      at listOnTimeout (node:internal/timers:573:17)
      at processTimers (node:internal/timers:514:7)
ok 462 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option sets Window Control Overlay with hidden inset title bar # SKIP -
ok 463 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option when an invalid titleBarStyle is initially set does not crash changing minimizability 
ok 464 BrowserWindow module "titleBarStyle" option when an invalid titleBarStyle is initially set does not crash changing maximizability
not ok 465 BrowserWindow module "titleBarOverlay" option sets Window Control Overlay with title bar height of 40
  Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
  Error: Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
      at listOnTimeout (node:internal/timers:573:17)
      at processTimers (node:internal/timers:514:7)
ok 466 BrowserWindow module BrowserWindow.setTitlebarOverlay does not crash when an invalid titleBarStyle was initially set
(node:2588) MaxListenersExceededWarning: Possible EventEmitter memory leak detected. 11 error listeners added to [IpcMainImpl]. Use emitter.setMaxListeners() to increase limit
not ok 467 BrowserWindow module BrowserWindow.setTitlebarOverlay correctly updates the height of the overlay
  Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
  Error: Timeout of 30000ms exceeded. For async tests and hooks, ensure "done()" is called; if returning a Promise, ensure it resolves. (C:\projects\src\electron\spec\api-browser-window-spec.ts)
      at listOnTimeout (node:internal/timers:573:17)
      at processTimers (node:internal/timers:514:7)
ok 468 BrowserWindow module "enableLargerThanScreen" option can move the window out of screen # SKIP -
ok 469 BrowserWindow module "enableLargerThanScreen" option cannot move the window behind menu bar # SKIP -