fix(components): [select] don't trigger remoteMethod when dropdown hides

[yj-liuzepeng]

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Description

The filterMethod or remoteMethod should not be triggered when the dropdown menu is hidden.

Related Issue

Fixes #13847
Related to Issue #9539, #10283, #11614, and PR #9587, #10218

Explanation of Changes

Regarding #9539, I think that when the select is clicked again, it should display the list of search results from the previous search. Additionally, triggering the filterMethod or remoteMethod again when the change event or blur event is triggered could have some negative impacts. I have reviewed other UI component libraries, such as Ant Design and Semi Design, and it is indeed the case.

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🧪 Playground Preview: https://element-plus.run/?pr=13865
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[yj-liuzepeng]

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[yj-liuzepeng]

I saw that you have submitted a pull request for this (#10218), i hope to get your suggestions！ @btea

[btea]

I'm not sure if filterMethod and remoteMethod need to be triggered after select closes the drop-down box, but there have been multiple issues and PRs that have mentioned this recently, what do you think is the right behavior? cc @element-plus/backers

[tolking]

Because the input value will be cleared when the drop-down box is closed, I think that triggering the filterMethod and remoteMethod is a reasonable behavior.

Removing these codes will reproduce the original issues

In addition, this PR do not seem to be related to #13847 🤔️

[kooriookami]

Fixed in 2.5.0