feat: add metrics instrumentation for status updater

[shawnh2]

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What this PR does / why we need it:

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #2131, close #2130

[shawnh2]

/retest

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Attention: Patch coverage is 61.29032% with 12 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 67.06%. Comparing base (c30d09f) to head (f3ec2ab).
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Files	Patch %	Lines
internal/provider/kubernetes/status_updater.go	61.29%	9 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️

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[guydc]

LGTM, Thanks!