a first crack at flushing the scheduler manually from inside act(). uses unstable_flushWithoutYielding(). The tests that changes, mostly replaced toFlushAndYield(...) with toHaveYielded(). For some tests that tested the state of the tree before flushing effects (but still after updates), I replaced act() with bacthedUpdates().

of note, unstable_flushWithoutYielding now returns a boolean much like flushPassiveEffects

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I also tried writing a test for it, but couldn't get the scheduler to unmock. included the failing test.

based on facebook#15591. of note, we don't modify our own tests to satisfy this warning, instead using a feature flag to disable the warning for some tests. this is because we're testing the actual sequencing of work in these tests, and don't want to flush everything with act().