chore: apply patches for v4 (gatsbyjs#33170)

* chore: apply patches for v4

* adjust publish-next command

* replace alpha with next

* switch to node14 in circleci

* update yarn.lock

* set COMPILER_OPTIONS and update circleci config

* use sudo for now

package.json

@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@
   ],
   "license": "MIT",
   "peerDependencies": {
-    "gatsby": "^3.0.0-next.0"
+    "gatsby": "^4.0.0-next"
   },
   "repository": {
     "type": "git",
@@ -48,6 +48,6 @@
   },
   "types": "index.d.ts",
   "engines": {
-    "node": ">=12.13.0"
+    "node": ">=14.15.0"
   }
 }