build: support apple silicon (arm64 darwin) builds

Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
PR-URL: #2165

lib/configure.js

@@ -132,6 +132,7 @@ function configure (gyp, argv, callback) {
     variables.target_arch = gyp.opts.arch || process.arch || 'ia32'
     if (variables.target_arch === 'arm64') {
       defaults.msvs_configuration_platform = 'ARM64'
+      defaults.xcode_configuration_platform = 'arm64'
     }
 
     // set the node development directory