dgram: sync the old handle state to new handle

lib/dgram.js

@@ -184,7 +184,10 @@ function startListening(socket) {
 function replaceHandle(self, newHandle) {
   const state = self[kStateSymbol];
   const oldHandle = state.handle;
-
+  // Sync the old handle state to new handle
+  if (!oldHandle.hasRef() && typeof newHandle.unref === 'function') {
+    newHandle.unref();
+  }
   // Set up the handle that we got from primary.
   newHandle.lookup = oldHandle.lookup;
   newHandle.bind = oldHandle.bind;

test/parallel/test-dgram-unref-in-cluster.js

@@ -0,0 +1,18 @@
+'use strict';
+const common = require('../common');
+const dgram = require('dgram');
+const cluster = require('cluster');
+
+// Test if the worker process exits.
+
+if (cluster.isPrimary) {
+  cluster.fork();
+} else {
+  const socket = dgram.createSocket('udp4');
+  socket.unref();
+  socket.bind();
+  socket.on('listening', common.mustCall(() => {
+    // Do not keep loop alive
+    process.channel.unref();
+  }));
+}