[v12 backport] Modules bootstrap refactoring

[aduh95]

Backport of #29937.

Blocked by #31241.

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• tests and/or benchmarks are included
• documentation is changed or added
• commit message follows commit guidelines

[MylesBorins]

@aduh95 thanks for opening this PR!

I'm in the process of planning a backport PR to get all of the modules work up to date. Part of this will include updating V8 to 7.8 (it is still on 7.7)

The PR is #30109

[MylesBorins]

Realizing I left my post only half done.

I may build on top of your PR to make the new PR if you are ok with that, were there a lot of conflicts that you dealt with?

[aduh95]

@MylesBorins I'm definitely OK with that :)

were there a lot of conflicts that you dealt with?

It depends what you call a lot, I suppose, there were a few for sure.

[targos]

this commit also landed cleanly after the previous ones