Updated as described in doc/contributing/maintaining-zlib.md.

Fix the compile flags so that zlib can run on CPUs that do
not have SSSE3/SSE4.2/etc. Do not compile zlib with flags that
indicate that those features are available, and instead enable
them selectively for functions that use them.

There are probably better way to do this, e.g. through gyp file
modifications as suggested in the issue. However, this patch
should do just fine until that happens.

Fixes: nodejs#32553

PR-URL: nodejs#32627
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

PR-URL: nodejs#35679
Fixes: nodejs#35629
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>