Fixs two issues in `TLSWrap`, one of them is reported in
nodejs#30896.

1. `TLSWrap` has exactly one `StreamListener`, however,
that `StreamListener` can be replaced. We have not been
rigorous enough here: if an active write has not been
finished before the transition, the finish callback of it
will be wrongly fired the successor `StreamListener`.

2. A `TLSWrap` does not allow more than one active write,
as checked in the assertion about current_write in
`TLSWrap::DoWrite()`.

However, when users make use of an existing `tls.TLSSocket`
to establish double TLS, by
either
  tls.connect({socket: tlssock})
or
  tlsServer.emit('connection', tlssock)
we have both of the user provided `tls.TLSSocket`, tlssock and
a brand new created `TLSWrap` writing to the `TLSWrap` bound to
tlssock, which easily violates the constranint because two writers
have no idea of each other.

The design of the fix is:
when a `TLSWrap` is created on top of a user provided socket,
do not send any data to the socket until all existing writes
of the socket are done and ensure registered callbacks of
those writes can be fired.

Format code.

Remove unnecessary saving of `this` for arrow function.

Fix typo

Introduce enum UnderlyingStreamWriteStatus.

Format code