fix: avoid instanceof Object check in isErrorLike

#8497 does not seem to have been fully resolved for me with 14.4.0 (#8504), likely because the `instanceof` check being changed in this PR also causes issues in Jest due to jestjs/jest#2549. I was able to confirm that this change avoids the error I've been seeing in CI by testing this change via `patch-package`.

src/common/util.ts

@@ -407,7 +407,7 @@ interface ErrorLike extends Error {
 }
 
 export function isErrorLike(obj: unknown): obj is ErrorLike {
-  return obj instanceof Object && 'name' in obj && 'message' in obj;
+  return typeof obj === 'object' && obj !== null && 'name' in obj && 'message' in obj;
 }
 
 export function isErrnoException(obj: unknown): obj is NodeJS.ErrnoException {