feat(node-resolve): allow preferBuiltins to be a function

[younggglcy]

Rollup Plugin Name: @rollup/plugin-node-resolve

This PR contains:

• bugfix
• feature
• refactor
• documentation
• other

Are tests included?

• yes (bugfixes and features will not be merged without tests)
• no

Breaking Changes?

• yes (breaking changes will not be merged unless absolutely necessary)
• no

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List any relevant issue numbers: resolves #1655

Description

I think #1665 proposes a nice feature that gives preferBuiltins a more fine-grained control, so I'm trying to resolve this a little inactive issue.

This PR only makes node-resolve accept a function parameter to preferBuiltins to introduce as little as possible without changing the changes of the existing API.

#1665 also proposes that let it match the behavior of the external config of rollup. But I think in most cases, we only need to mark some modules as non-builtins, e.g., deprecated modules like punycode. And this is somehow contrary to the behavior of the external.

Is accepting a function enough or should we add some extra configs? I'm willing to contribute if we need to make more changes.