mon: fix mon scaledown when mons are portable (backport #14106)

[mergify]

in case of portable mons, mon scaledown was skipped with below code

if mon.NodeName == "" {
			logger.Debugf("mon %q is not scheduled to a specific host", mon.DaemonName)
			continue
		}

which skips mon removal if mon nodeName is empty
but if mons are scale down in case of portable mons in that case also we want to remove extra mons to match the cephCluster configuration.

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