preserve NAs in selectInput() (addresses Issue #2884)

[d-morrison]

This PR attempts to address #2884; glad to revise as needed! In particular, I'm not sure how to update shiny.min.js, so I have only tested my changes with options("shiny.minified" = FALSE)

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