fix: use ipv4 for windows and wsl default hosts

[pi0]

🔗 Linked issue

Reports in nuxt/cli#109

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation, readme, or JSdoc annotations)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality like performance)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• 🧹 Chore (updates to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

Windows IP stack can confuse for resolving localhost between IPv4 and IPv6 stacks.

For more safety, i also changed to prefer IPv4 anyhost (0.0.0.0) by default for windows. (It can be always overridden by users using hostname and HOST)

📝 Checklist

• I have linked an issue or discussion.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.