[cmake] do not use distutils in cmake scripts

[hbiyik]

Distutils is removed since python3.12

Description

Instead use sysconfig which is available since python3.2.

Motivation and context

If not using a linux system with python 3.12 will cause installing eventclient python libs to / root folder since PYTHON_LIB_PATH is not resolved

How has this been tested?

tested on archlinux

What is the effect on users?

Screenshots (if appropriate):

Types of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• Clean up (non-breaking change which removes non-working, unmaintained functionality)
• Improvement (non-breaking change which improves existing functionality)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that will cause existing functionality to change)
• Cosmetic change (non-breaking change that doesn't touch code)
• Student submission (PR was done for educational purposes and will be treated as such)
• None of the above (please explain below)

Checklist:

• My code follows the Code Guidelines of this project
• My change requires a change to the documentation, either Doxygen or wiki
• I have updated the documentation accordingly
• I have read the Contributing document
• I have added tests to cover my change
• All new and existing tests passed

[hbiyik]

i also have a nexus port if needed for an extra pr.

[fuzzard]

Nexus isn't opened for any more merges

[fuzzard]

Cheers for the PR. Feel free to open a backport PR for Omega branch