fix: backport patch to sync exposed crypto

[codebytere]

Description of Change

Closes #16812.

Backports https://boringssl-review.googlesource.com/c/boringssl/+/33984 to our patch set in order to correctly enumerate and instantiate ciphers. Also adds a test to ensure that DES-EDE-CBC actually works.

cc @nornagon

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Release Notes

Notes: Added a patch to fix incorrect enumeration and instantiation of Node.js ciphers in the Crypto module.

[nornagon]

FYI, that patch may change a little still before it gets merged upstream so we may need to update this.

[codebytere]

@nornagon @ryzokuken all set, ptal when you can 🙇‍♀️

[ryzokuken]

🤦‍♂️ LGTM. Thanks.

[codebytere]

Flake on linux tests that is unrelated! Merging.

[release-clerk]

Release Notes Persisted

Some ciphers that were listed in crypto.getCiphers() were not instantiable with crypto.createCipheriv(). Now they are.

[trop]

I have automatically backported this PR to "5-0-x", please check out #16909

[codebytere]

/trop run backport-to 4-0-x

[trop]

The backport process for this PR has been manually initiated,
sending your 1's and 0's to "4-0-x" here we go! :D

[trop]

I have automatically backported this PR to "4-0-x", please check out #16912