fix: potential crash caused by dlopen different gtk libraries

[miniak]

Backport of #33650
Backport of #34141

See that PR for details.

Notes: fix crash when opening gtk file dialogs due to mismatched versions

[miniak]

@deepak1556 can you please check? The change from E18 is slightly different than our internal backport in E17

[codebytere]

@miniak gn check failed:

#!/bin/bash -eo pipefail
cd src
gn gen out/Default --args="import(\"$GN_CONFIG\") import(\"$GN_GOMA_FILE\") $GN_EXTRA_ARGS $GN_BUILDFLAG_ARGS"

ERROR Unresolved dependencies.
//electron:electron_gtk_stubs(//build/toolchain/linux:clang_arm64)
  needs //ui/gtk:gtk_config(//build/toolchain/linux:clang_arm64)


Exited with code exit status 1
CircleCI received exit code 1

[deepak1556]

@codebytere the gn check is a weird failure, the dependency on //ui/gtk:gtk_config was replaced in commit 3c0ea37 with //build/config/linux/gtk. The failing step in the gn check run is actually before the actual check in Default GN gen which passes on other runs for the same commit.

Some kind of bad cache is causing the failure.

[jviotti]

An interesting Linux one you might be curious about @robertgzr

[release-clerk]

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fix crash when opening gtk file dialogs due to mismatched versions